Okay so I am not going to pretend I am little Miss Positive Pollyana, I know full well I can be a Debbie Downer.  But there are a few things that you just don’t do.  You don’t tell a person who is diagnosed with cancer that they will ‘just die’…. repeatedly.  It’s not nice and […]

The saga continues…

What started out as a well meaning idea from my hubs to his cousin has turned into something rather strange and bitter tasting.  Well, I at least have a bitter taste in my mouth. When I had decided to travel to Japan and South Korea I made mention of it to both my husband’s cousin […]


For the love of Christ on a pogo stick!  I tossed the sodding thing a long time ago but the drama just never seems to end with it. So yesterday my non-Facebook family was worried that our family would hear the cancer news online vs. straight from my aunt.  I had to explain to my […]


I woke up at 4:30 to get ready for my morning yoga/swim ritual and noticed I had two missed calls and two voicemail messages. One from mom and one from my aunt, that’s odd. Both of the message of course were the typical, canned, cryptic message, “Hi I was just calling to talk to you, […]


So the mister says he hates being a parent.  Then why did he have a kid?!  Okay so it wasn’t planned and the girl said she “was” on birth control.  Turns out she wasn’t, surprise!  Who the hell dates a 5150 without a little bit of fear, paranoia and suspicion? I was naturally fearful of […]

I think I am ready…

But I think I will be keeping my move on the down low. I won’t be posting a banner and balloons telling people to join me at my new place. I most likely will drop a URL on the respective blogs I read or via email. I think the straw that broke the camel’s back […]